Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Saving Lives While You Shop

It's that time of year...  The time of year for Egg Nog, the movie Elf and awesome Mariah Carey Christmas songs. It's also the time of year for gift giving; which tends to make us more stressed out and broke than full of Holiday Cheer. After the fact, it doesn't seem quite worth it. Weeks later your kids get bored with their new toys, the teens take back half of the clothes you bought them, the electronics already need an upgrade, and you now have a huge credit card payment to add to your list of bills.

What if there was a solution? A way to enjoy gift-giving, to teach your friends and family a valuable lesson about helping those less fortunate, and to actually save lives while you do it.

Before I explain how you can save lives, I need to first explain why there are lives that need saving. To some extent, most of us are aware of the poverty in other countries. Some of us sponsor children and some of us fill shoe boxes every year so these children can open gifts on Christmas. We do this and we feel good about ourselves before we indulge in our materialistic traditions. But we need to give beyond the poor kids who open shoe boxes. I'm talking about making a conscious effort to help those who don't even know if they'll make it through Christmas day alive; due to hunger, rape, murder, wild animal attacks, diseases, slavery, etc.

There are people living in situations you can't even imagine in your worst nightmares. I've read stories of women who watched all of their children get brutally raped and murdered at the hand of their country's own militia, and of orphans who get eaten by hyenas and wild dogs on a regular basis because they have no shelter. If that's not bad enough, many of these people end up being sold into some form of slavery. And here is the slap, or better yet, punch, in the face: the slave labor is completely funded by people like us.

By people like me.

Unfortunately, by my spending decisions, I support modern day slavery. I support children working 19 hours a day, 7 days a week with little or no pay. I support these same children getting beaten when they can't keep up with the work load. I support adults working impossibly long hours in fields with nothing to show for it.

When I started doing research I was shocked. Many of the retailers I shop at use suppliers who are most likely involved with slave labor practices. To name a few: Walmart, Abercrombie & Fitch, Skechers, Lacoste, Hollister, Roxy, Kindle, LeapPad, LeapFrog, Forever 21, & Barbie. If you're interested in seeing the entire list of companies and how they're graded based on numerous criteria, visit Free2work.org.

There are more slaves today than in any other period in history. It is estimated there are 27 million slaves in the world. Let that sink in for a moment.

Then take this quiz, http://slaveryfootprint.org/, to find out how many slaves work for you. I took it, and it turns out I have thousands of slaves working for me. THOUSANDS. You want to know what the biggest culprit in my house was? Children's clothing (Osh Kosh, Carters, Garanimals). So while I parade my children around in their adorable Sunday best, I am parading around items made at the hands of suffering children. This is an issue we need to make ourselves aware of. By purchasing and supporting these products, we are just as guilty as the slave owners themselves.

I had two options. To boycott clothes and let my children run around naked, or make my own clothes, and just like Sweet Brown says, "ain't nobody got time for that". Thank goodness I discovered a third option.

Fair Trade.

There are so many AWESOME businesses and organizations created to give a life to those who would normally have nothing. These organizations have rescued people out of slavery, and have rescued those who couldn't feed themselves or their families.  Fair trade employees get fair wages and health care. They work in quality environments making beautiful accessories, clothing, home decor, gifts, coffee, chocolate and other food items. When you buy these products, you are paying for the product AND a chance at life, a chance they normally wouldn't get. With their profits they are able to support themselves and their families, some even getting the chance to attend school!

Here is a screen shot from Krochetkids.org, telling the story of one of their artisans:


So this Christmas, buy your friends and family items that really will save a life. By purchasing a fair trade item: you are no longer supporting slave labor, you are providing income to those in poverty, you are giving these businesses and organizations more money which means more opportunities to rescue and hire, and of course, you'll still be getting gifts for your loved ones. It's a win-win-win!

This Christmas I am making a decision to stop supporting slavery and to start supporting a chance out of poverty and oppression. I am vowing to do my research and do my best to only buy fair trade products. Join me and do the same!

If you own a business, you can make a difference as well! Many of these companies will sell wholesale products to retailers. My sister, owner of Backwoods Beauty Salon in Richland, NY, has already signed up to sell fair trade women's accessories from one of the companies listed below. It was as easy as sending an e-mail. You can also host a home party through many of these organizations. They'll mail you the supplies, and you just send back what you don't sell! The more fair trade products we buy, the more lives we can save!

Here is a list of some great places to start your shopping!

Local:
Agape Shoppe, Watertown, NY
Fair World Marketplace Syracuse/Dewitt, NY
Spiritual Renewal Center, Syracuse, NY
Bolivia Fair Trade, Syracuse, NY  

Photos from the Agape Shoppe in Watertown, NY.

Worldwide:
This is just a short list. Put Google to good use and you can find any fair trade product you're looking for!

http://www.greenheartshop.org/
http://www.tukula.org
http://www.maliadesigns.com/
http://www.oxfamshop.org.au/
http://www.globalgirlfriend.com
http://www.krochetkids.org
https://www.tenthousandvillages.com/
http://www.spiralfoundation.org/
http://www.traidcraftshop.co.uk/
http://www.solerebels.com/
http://31bits.com/
http://shopwithmeaning.org/featured/fair-trade-gifts/
http://www.onevillage.org/welcome.htm

Friday, November 15, 2013

What is "The Called"?

Children laughing in Cambodia, taken by one of "The Called" members, Anna Fahey

We are a group of girls who have been overwhelmed with one simple passion. To be like Christ.

To actually walk the walk. To get our hands dirty. To love the unlovable.

"Defend the cause of the weak and fatherless; maintain the rights of the poor and oppressed. Rescue the weak and needy; deliver them from the hand of the wicked." Psalm 82:3-4

And that, is our mission statement. Because loving and serving others, feeding the poor, taking care of the orphans and helping the needy are not individual callings that some get and others don't. 

We are ALL called.

Every. Single. One of Us.

Hence our name.

The Called is based out of New Life Christian Church in Watertown, NY. We are a small group with a huge vision. Each girl who is currently involved has a God-given passion and brings something different to the table. There are those who want to end sex trafficking, some who want to help mothers with newborns who can't afford even the simplest of necessities, girls who want to focus on the homeless and the orphans, and some who just want to be kind and reach out to their neighborhood.

We have been assigned a job by the Most High, and it's time we stop messing around and saying things like "I just don't feel called" or "When I have more money" or "I'm not really at a good place in my life right now". None of us will ever have "enough" money and we will always have moments where we struggle, but if you are on your computer or smart phone reading this blog, then you're already better off than 95% of the world.

So join us. If you're a female and you live anywhere near Watertown, NY, then come to our group meetings twice a month. We are doing a study called "Interrupted" by Jen Hatmaker and it has changed our lives. The statistics are overwhelming but our eyes have been opened and there is no going back. We are in the beginning stages of creating outreach programs and should have some implemented by early 2014. So if discussions aren't your thing, then stay in touch and we'll let you know when our ministries have begun. Like us on facebook to stay informed. 

If you don't live near us, then just pray. Pray for awareness, pray for passion and pray for God to open your eyes as he done for us. Pray for the injustice and for those suffering. Find ways you can help, whether its a monetary donation to an organization, or a donation of your time to a local or national cause.

Give a homeless man a blanket. Open your home to foster care. Stop buying slave trade products. Help fight sex trafficking. Sponsor a child. Give money to a struggling family. Adopt a child. Visit the elderly. Feed the hungry.

Why?


Because you're called and the time is now. 

~Jess